"I am in my own little world, but it's ok....THEY KNOW ME AROUND HERE"

What is love? I am not talking about heavenly or divine love. I trying to understand if there can be something similar on earth. With D-Day just weeks away and all the anticipated excitement just starting to take its form, I wonder what can this love, between two people entering into a world with a promise to stay together forever, tranform into.

yes, there are a lot of possible assumptions involved.

It can just be like mid summer madness i.e., just intial few years of all merry and fun and things return to a state where in you don't feel the same way anymore towards each other.

It can be diverted to a more mechanical or for the sake living.

Apart from that, the relationship of the two towards friends and family can change. Either one or both of them can become possessive and hence less social towards outside world. This sure will lead to people branding them as 'changed'.

I, for those who know me, don't want to be branded and I strived to be different. Lets come back to this topic of relationship with friends and family later, if need be.

Coming to the more intense feeling of finding a relationship and transforming it into something out of the world. People with some spiritual knowledge may say, dude, transforming an earthly love into divine love is not possible. Only love with God can be Divine love. But, on second thought, aren't everyone a spark of that divinity? aren't everyone from the same source? and since that divinity if formless, a spark could equal the source itself.Alright, I am not trying to make ends of a string meet, or rather I don't have to. you guys are smart enough to figure it out.

This transforming from earthly love to something more pure might be or could be limited to one relationship. For me, it could be my relationship with my wife-to-be. But I am confident that the more I try to elevate in this relationship, if my dedication and efforts are pure, I am sure it will spread to other relationships I might already have and will have. There can be no selective standards. There will obviously be priorities, there might be people who may choose to get hurt, but as long as my heart is pure and strives to be so, it is possible.


I don't know how I am going to do it, but if this is what God wants me to do, He will make me do it. He will guide me.